Online Dating: The Science of Taking A Great Self Portrait
02/27/2013
Let's face it: We're a society that likes to judge books by their covers. And we also like to judge dating profiles by their pictures. A “selfie” is a picture of yourself, which often becomes your face to the online world, especially when used as a profile picture for social media or an online dating site. And just like other aspects of dating, there's some science behind the art of striking good selfie poses, which my colleague Kiley has been kind enough to demonstrate. See four ways to make yourself look better in your own "selfie."
Use Natural Sunlight for Good Skin Tone
Positioning yourself by natural sunlight helps to wash out blemishes and create a smooth skin tone. Some studies find that skin tone by itself might not be attractive, but rather serves to amplify existing facial attractiveness.
Shoot From Above For An Adorable Look
Shooting from above and looking upward gives the appearance of a wide-eyed gaze, a prominent forehead, and a softer jaw. These are the features of a childlike face, which can end up looking adorable.
Shoot From Below For A Lean and Commanding Look
You might see professional photographers crouch down to photograph a model. This upward angle creates a tall and lean look, which can give you the appearance of being taller or a “socially dominant” person who will take charge of situations.
Turn To A ¾ Pose To Throw In Some Curves
Make a ¾ twist with your shoulders and put your hand on the opposite hip to accentuate your curves. Women’s waist-to-hip ratios and men’s waist-to-shoulder ratios, which are thought to be physical signals of reproductive health, look pleasing when you strike this pose.
If the selfie does what it should -- attract romantic interest -- then someone will eventually want to see the real you. It’s important to keep in mind that selfies are ultimately a fun self-indulgence. Although doing a ¾ twist is great for looking better physically, eventually we all have to square up and show our true selves.
More on Dating and Relationships:
The Risks and Rewards of Online Dating
Making the Perfect Personal Ad
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