Family Feuds Erupt Amidst Beautiful Kitchens
10/29/2009
My entire family is in the business: my brother, Joe is a custom cabinet maker. My mom is a fabulous seamstress, and she's got an unbelievable eye for faux painting. My dad's been a handyman and a carpenter his whole life, and my brother, Matthew is learning all trades.
My family's worked together prior to this, but of course, we didn't have the time constraints we have now. It's such a short amount of time, you'll see that tempers absolutely flare, we step on each other's toes, and opinions differ. My brother Joe and I absolutely have different ideas!
He's a custom cabinet maker, so of course, he thinks the vast majority of budget should go into that. He'll debate: why spend money on window treatments, and things to finish room – and he gets frustrated. He wants all of the budget to go into construction materials.
Matthew sits back and watches. He might stick his nose in every once in a while, but my parents are really stuck in middle. It's an interesting process. While it seems like it might drive us away from each other, it really brings us closer. At end of the day, when all projects are done, my brother and I understand each other a little better, not only on the show, but also outside, with my parents, and we're able to help them out.
There's a lot of personality in the show. It's tense and it's fun.
We're a close knit family. We love each other very much, we're not the kind of family that just gets together on holidays. My mother is my best friend. I spend time with family, because I want to, not because I have to. We're very close, we have good, open communications, we laugh and we play practical jokes. The show runs the full gamut of emotions.
Thoughout the season, the kitchens are by far the hardest project! And it's not just about the workload. That's where my brother and I always, always, always butt heads over the cabinetry. I see his frustration that he wants to make the custom cabinets the best, but I need to wear a designer hat and a GC hat. For him, I should be a general contractor first and foremost, and a designer is secondary. He does the labor, but it's inevitable that I'm going to ask him to construct it in such a short period of time. Kitchens, in general, are overwhelming projects for do-it-yourselfers or professional contractors. There are so many elements, kitchens are challenging.
The viewers will get a lot of design advice, construction advice, and demolition advice. Unlike other renovation shows, we don't want you to just take a sledge hammer to everything! There is a responsible way to demolish, and keep items that can potentially stay or be reused.
I hope the viewers are inspired at the end of the day, and motivated to tackle some of these tough projects. Whether it's revamping your room, searching for ideas on color, furniture, or the potential of their room, we have it. I hope viewers are more informed on how to deal with a contractor, but realize that a few bad contractors can't overshadow the tons of contractors who do fantastic, excellent work.
I want people to be less afraid to take a chance. Sure, they need to do their homework, but when you've chosen the right one, it works. I really hope it's an inspiration.
It's a wild ride. It's been a wild ride for the family. I hope the viewers will be entertained. It absolutely shows what happens in a renovation. A lot of networks will edit out the hard stuff, but it was really important for me to show the challenges. That's my biggest pet peeve, when shows have the big reveal, without showing the work, and viewers think it’s a piece of cake. Then, the do-it-yourselfer gives up as soon as they encounter the first problem. Problems happen all the time, and when you're compressed for time, there are lots of mistakes, things get mismeasured, but at the end of the day, we rally, and figure out a way to solve it.
I hope viewers walk away knowing you don't have to let the problems stop you in your tracks. If you really pay attention, these things are possible. The show is the real deal – things aren't always perfect.
In the end, business is business and family is family. I hope people find the show really entertaining, I hope they love the designs and I hope they know how much I love the work we are doing!

















