Mike, Follow The Leader...
QUESTION:
Do you tend to be a leader or a follower? It depends on the situation for me, sometimes I follow and sometimes I lead.
sanfrangirl74
ANSWER:
Sometimes, it feels as though I'm leading, then I look over my shoulder, and no one is there. So, if I am first, in a line of one, am I leading or merely lost? Or am I just alone?
Or, I might look up and see people in front of me, going in the same direction. Am I then a fellow traveler, or a follower? Or maybe a stalker?
Leadership I think is a state of mind. I find that people who know precisely where they want to go often see themselves as leaders. But aren't those people following something too? A "plan", a "dream", a "belief", a "passion?"
We have elevated the term "leadership" to the point where its qualities have become automatically postive and noble. Such platitudes are worthy of a suspicion. Mao, Hitler, Stalin, Jim Jones - they were all leaders, to the woe of those that followed. The willingness to lead and the desire to control are impossible to differentiate. Only the leader can say what drives his actions. History will sort out the rest. (As told by the winners, naturally.)
Likewise, the willingness to follow is also a choice, and does not preclude the ability to lead. In fact, I think the best leaders are those who are happy to follow, but step up when circumstances demand. The courage to lead is admirable - the ambition to lead is not. Perhaps, I'm less interested in where a candidate stands on every issue, than I am in understanding why they want the job. I see difference in the courage to lead fairly, and the decision to follow wisely.
Sometimes I wonder if it takes more courage to lead or follow. (Ever ride shotgun with a bad driver?)
Mike
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