5 Tips for Mental Fitness
May 18, 2011
The mind is a terrible thing to waste. But it’s also a terrible thing to let get out of control. We all have our challenges in life, but we can also look those challenges in the face, see them for what they are and do something about it. Here are 5 tips for doing just that.
In neurological terms, fear is the memory of danger. Simply by taking action and exercising you’re circumventing the mechanism for the fear memory.
Here’s how exercise helps you outrun fear:
- It provides distraction
- It reduces muscle tension
- It builds brain resources
- It teaches a different outcome
- It reroutes your circuits (use sympathetic nervous system to move instead of wait and worry)
- It improves resilience (learn to control anxiety and not let it become a panic)
- It sets you free (literally…if you’re locked down, you’ll feel more anxious)
2. Become Your Own Mind-Control Freak
I know it sounds ridiculous, but it’s true. Exercise is being used to treat depression – and often more effectively than commonly prescribed drugs. Depression isn’t just all in your head. It is a re-wiring of the physical and chemical structure of your brain.
About 17 million American adults experience depression at some point, to the tune of $26.1 billion in health care costs each year. A 1999 Duke University showed that every 50 minutes of exercise conducted weekly is correlated to a 50% reduction in the odds of being depressed.
Humans are social animals, so if you’re depressed, it would be ideal to choose a form of exercise that encourages making connections and that can take place outside or in some environment that stimulates the senses. This will stimulate your brain and make depression less likely.
3. See What’s Really Going On
Ever notice how when something a little bad happens, we sometimes think it’s worse. “Why is this happening to ME!?” We sometimes take negatives personally when they rarely are.
You might hit a traffic jam when you’re already running late for an appointment. Or perhaps the grocery store is out of the one ingredient you need to make that new recipe you want to try. Any number of relatively minor frustrations can be made worse or better by your mindset.
At times like this, it’s important to stop and ask yourself “What is really going on and exactly how bad is this situation?” Is it really the end of your child’s future hopes and dreams if they get a bad grade on a single test? Or is it an opportunity to identify an area of study or organization that needs either a different approach or more focused effort? It’s all in how you view it. (For more info on “mindset,” see Mindset by Carol Dweck.)
4. Are Your Challenges Making You Better or Just Challenged?
What frustrates you over and over? And then ask yourself: “Am I learning anything from it?” We get into patterns of doing things just because we’ve always done them. If the frustrations make you search for solutions, get better at problem-solving, or cause you to think differently about similar situations moving forward, then there is value in those frustrations.
If all you’re getting is frustrated over and over without any growth or learning, then these are challenges best avoided.
For example, I’ve spoken for a fitness organization several times and have had to consistently fight just to be treated fairly. Recently, it became apparent that they weren’t going to change the way they do things, so I’m not going to lend my talents and ideas to that organization. I’m no longer expecting them to change, but instead I’m directing my energies where they will be fully appreciated.
If you’re not learning or growing from a challenge and just repeating frustrations, then put your energies elsewhere.
5. Get Away in Body or at Least in Mind
Remind yourself that the world is a very large and complex place. Either get away from your surroundings by taking a short trip or get away in mind and spirit by connecting with a friend you haven’t spoken with in a while or diving into a cherished hobby or activity that you haven’t enjoyed in a while that will consume your mental energies in a positive enjoyable way to give you a mental holiday.
For me, I get this either from playing sports that I love or in watching thought-provoking and/or highly entertaining movies where it is possible to lose oneself in the story. Very soon, I’ll be resuming outdoor volleyball with some friends one night a week. This is often a highlight of the week because for a couple of hours, my mind is focused only on the momentary needs of the next rally. Nothing before or after that moment enters the mind. And it just feels great afterward.
Keep your mind sharp by not using it so much! It is humanly impossible to truly multi-task well (read the research if you don’t believe me) and our poor over-burdened brains are not meant to be constantly plugged-in and over stimulated by multiple streams of info. Use these tips to keep your mind right, and you probably noticed while reading them that a lot can be done for the mind by getting the body moving. If you’d like more details on how activity can benefit the mind, I’d encourage you to read Spark by John Ratey.
All kinds of fitness are mind-body fitness – so get moving for your brain, and enjoy the benefits to your body as a side effect!
Jonathan Ross
Discovery Fit & Health Fitness Expert
Author, Abs Revealed
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